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"...helps me stay connected, and accountable. It's another tool that I use to stay sober."

- Sales  


"It's comfy because I don't have to look anyone in the eye, so I can just tell it like it is."

- Marketing Rep  


"...I thought maybe I could just hide behind my computer. But what I noticed is that I actually started talking things out here, and everybody else in the group does too! Listening to how others handle their difficulties gives me new ways to think about handling mine. That's what I think is so great!"

- Retired  


"I have found these online groups to be extremely effective. After rehab I was in a group where there were usually 12-14 people. Mostly it was about how you looked, what people were wearing, etc. In this group we are able to talk about things that are very meaningful, and you're not thinking about how someone looks, but rather what they are saying. Also for me, there are people in these groups who have been through a lot of different things and there have been no judgments made about one another. I have seen people move on in their lives but we have all shared our similarities. It has been so powerful."

- Marketing Rep  


"I don't know why I waited so long to do this. It feels great!"

- Retired Engineer  


"I like A.A. meetings but I always have this overwhelming desire to look good to everybody, even when I don't feel it. Here I can just be myself, talk straight about what's going on for me, and you guys tell me the truth. Also, I don't have to drive to get here so that's good!"

- Computer Tech  


"This online continuing care is the best thing I have ever done for myself" "It keeps me connected.

- Outside Sales  


"It's like starting from 1st grade for me. I have learned A LOT! This has been a real eye-opener."

- Teacher  


"The online group is a "great tool for me because I can talk openly and I don't get so nervous."

- College Student  


"I look forward to attending because I can talk about real stuff and everyone is very supportive of one another."

- Homemaker  


"I was going to several different meetings, but found many "clicks" that were difficult to enter. While I am still committed to 12-Step and continue to actively participate, in this group I always get a good feeling and feel like I belong."

- Marketing  


"I have many people I can trust, family, friends, therapist, colleagues and this online group."

- Marketing Rep  


"My best support comes from other addicts and alcoholics in recovery, because they go through the same kind of things that I do. This online discussion is the greatest! I enjoy the hell out of these sessions. You just can't get enough support, and I know that these groups are really supportive."

- Retired  


"I've been through treatment 3 times before this. This was hard for me because dealing with my feelings has never been easy. I got to deal with important feelings that I never had to face before. I learned how to be more assertive, and can stand up for myself which I didn't know how to do before. It's still kinda uncomfortable, but I'm doing better. These groups really made a difference for me."

- Computer Marketer  


"This is a good thing. It's been a good experience for me. I like the convenience of being able to sign on from my home. I feel connected to the other group members and look forward to each group, I've been in treatment before and I am learning lots of new things. I'm glad I chose to participate in this program."

- Teacher  


"I have been so grateful that I came to this program. It was a hard road but this program made me open up to my problems honestly. First I had to look at them from the outside but then I started looking at them from the inside. What a difference! I can't express enough gratitude to my counselors for their help in this journey. I never dreamed that I could think differently about my disease and myself. Thank you so much!"

- Finance Manager  






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Addiction Recovery FAQ:


Recovery Questions

What is recovery?

Recovery is returning to health. Recovery from Drugs and alcohol dependency it is an ongoing process from using alcohol or drugs to sobriety, to health and a healthier lifestyle.

Recovery has several identifiable stages.
  1. The first stage is recognizing or the willingness to admit to yorself that a problem exists. This usually happen when a person is hurt, threatened, or scared enough to take action -- commonly called "hitting bottom."
  2. The second stage is the cessation of drinking or using addictive, mind-altering substances. This stage of recovery includes detoxification and may or may not require medical attention for withdrawal symptoms.
  3. The third stage of recovery is referred to as "early recovery" and usually pertains to the first two years of abstinence. During this time, people work to make changes in negative lifestyle patterns and behaviors that were developed to hide drinking and drug use. This important stage of recovery is when most people connect with Twelve Step recovery programs, such as Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous, find a sponsor, and join a support group that provides focus and help during the process.
  4. The fourth stage of recovery involves ongoing change in positive directions that enhance a clean and sober lifestyle and help the person remain free from addictive substances.
The third and fourth stages of recovery may include counseling, attendance at recovery support group meetings, and a variety of other activities, such as schooling for career advancement or connecting with a church, meditation, or social group. Recovery is a not an event that happens at a given time. It is a process of involvement that encompasses all aspects of a person's life.

Is a person who is no longer drinking or using in recovery?

Abstinence is the most important part to recovery. Using the definition of "return to health," recovery refers to the process of learning to overcome behaviors that have caused you to become alienated and have cost you your self-esteem. This important phase begins with abstinence however it also involves learning new habits of honesty and improving your ability to have healthy relationships. To learn these new behaviors, many may find it useful to join a program, gaining an ongoing support group or getting into therapy to learn the skills to improve their life.

Principles of recovery found in Alcoholics Anonymous, help individuals to incorporate new ways of living that improve the emotional and spiritual aspects of their lives, as they maintain freedom from addictive substances. Recovery gives your body time to heal from the debilitating physical effects of chronic alcohol or drug use. Fortunately, once they stop using, most people fully recover their physical health.

Is a person who is taking medication in recovery?

Some physicians are unfamiliar with chemical dependency and may offer you medication that could threaten your sobriety. Chemically dependent individuals who are in recovery typically need to avoid all medications that are addictive, mind-altering chemicals. These include:
  • Benzodiazepines, such as Valium, Xanax, Ativan, Librium, and Centrex;
  • Narcotics, such as Codeine, Vicodin, Vicoprofen, Klonopin, Percodan, Dilaudid;
  • Sleeping pills, such as seconal, nembutal, restoril, dalman, ambien, somata; and
  • Muscle relaxants, particularly soma.
  • Stimulants, such as amphetamine, Ritalin, Adderal, and Dexedrine, Phentermine;
These categories of drugs are addictive and have a tendency to stimulate the central nervous system in a manner that can trigger a craving for the chemically dependent person's drug of choice or other addictive substances. If you are chemically dependent, you must be careful when taking any medications. You can easily become addicted to certain medications, even though the medication may not have been your preferred substance of abuse. You must also be aware of the effects of over-the-counter medications, herbs, and supplements because some of those products may produce effects similar to active addiction. Recovering individuals need to have a physician familiar with their history, and the person with the illness can never safely return to using addictive substances. In the chemically dependent brain, alcohol and drugs increase the level of dopamine, causing the addicted person to feel euphoric or "high". The brain adapts to this condition and undergoes a chemical change, so that when the drug or alcohol isn't present, the brain demands more. This is experienced as a "craving" by the addicted person. As the addicted person uses more and more, the brain changes become permanent.

When pain medications are needed for acute pain, it is important to have someone knowledgeable working with the chemically dependent individual to keep their use of pain medication to a minimum wherever possible. Most people do not need narcotic pain medication for more than two to three days following even serious surgery.

When is a person cured of chemical dependency?

There is no known cure available for chemical dependency. The person with the illness can never safely return to using addictive substances. In the chemically dependent brain, alcohol and drugs increase the level of dopamine, causing the addicted person to feel euphoric or "high". The brain adapts to this condition and undergoes a chemical change, so that when the drug or alcohol isn't present, the brain demands more. This is experienced as a "craving" by the addicted person. As the addicted person uses more and more, the brain changes become permanent.

The brain, when exposed to narcotic pain meds or small amounts of addictive substances, is reminded of the lack of the addictive substance. This can then set off intense cravings that trigger compulsive use of the substance. People, places, memories, painful feelings and stressful events can also set off intense cravings.

Most chemically dependent people believe that recovery includes other indicators of a return to health, such as reunification with their family, gaining employment, returning to school, living a more fulfilling and spiritual life. The terms "recovering" and "recovered" are used to indicate that recovery is an ongoing process since there is no known "cure" for chemical dependency. Many in recovery understand they have "recovered" from the devastating effects of active use, however believe their ongoing recovery is contingent on support to aide in keeping a daily focus to abstinence and recovery maintenance.

Aftercare groups, following treatment, combined with Twelve-Step recovery groups such as Alcoholics Anonymous or Narcotics Anonymous, work very well for large numbers of individuals. Participation in Aftercare groups reinforce the positive behaviors we've learned in order to avoid the pitfalls that can contribute to relapse.

If I'm depressed, do I need an antidepressant?

Addiction can cause depression. As the disease progresses and life becomes damaged by the behaviors associated with addiction, people can become depressed. They may experience alienation, rejection, isolation, and humiliation. They may feel suicidal and hopeless. A large number of recovering people find their depression clears dramatically as life improves in recovery. Bouts of minor depression are common in the first year of recovery, however if you are continuing to feel severely depressed with no change in the level of the depression after your first thirty days of recovery / abstinence, please see a doctor. If you are still experiencing significant chronic depression at three months into recovery, it is urgent that you seek help. Safe, non-addicting medication is available for the treatment of depression.

Why isn't everyone who has a chemical dependency in recovery?

Some chemically dependent people are so overwhelmed by their obsession to use that they do not believe they can live without using. They are so terrified of giving up their addiction that even intervention won't help. These are the individuals who end up sacrificing family, friends, careers, property, self-esteem, sanity - everything to continue using. Their way out of the disease is often institutionalization and ultimately, premature death.

Other chemically dependent individuals have extreme difficulty in overcoming denial. But they can be reached, intervention and treatment can help break their denial and aid them in getting help. Many types of treatment are available, and a knowledgeable counselor can aide in finding the appropriate level of care needed. Help is available.



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